Memories

#by Jayalakshmi, Amalfi

Memories:

Are we all living our lives or are we just making  memories 🤔.

In the paradox of life,so many dramas take  place. Sometimes we cry,sometimes we laugh and at times  we  feel all is  lost. Yet  again,when we look back at life 's ups and downs,we  ourselves are  surprised  as to how we  were able to manage  or overcome the difficult  phases. Life goes on and on and  suddenly life is no more-reaches  a dead end!!

Everything  comes  to  a standstill. The alarm  keeps ringing but one cannot wake up again,however  loud it rings  😴.

What is left then?

Only MEMORIES  of some good times, some  bad  times and all becomes  History--a thing of the past  recordings  or just MEMORIES and nothing more.

Memories  once again are fresh anew but  with the passing of  time they too fade into  oblivion.  As  Shakespeare  says "All the World's a Stage ". Each  one  plays the part  allotted to him and  disappears  and only  God  knows  where  .We keep searching and hoping that they may suddenly  appear  from  somewhere but all in vain. The wisdom  slowly  dawns on us that each of us will have  the same exit one day and  fade  away  as memories  and  those  memories  too  would  fade away  with  time.

So  make  beautiful and happy  memories. Cherish them ❤️

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